Your relationship has turn to a stressful situation that you have to go through every day in your life. Do you want someone to tell you that this relationship is not good for you? In spite of waiting for someone to help you figure this out, look for signs that will help you to understand that this relationship is not worthy enough to invest your time on it. Try looking for the signs of an unhealthy relationship.
Signs of An Unhealthy Relationship
Check out our list of warning signs of an unhealthy relationship.
1No Personal Growth
Love is that emotion which provides strength to you. It gives you the confidence to live freely. But when you are in a relationship where your personal growth is facing many hindrances because of your love life, then opting out from such a relationship is the best idea.
2Your Life Is Not Personal To You Anymore
When we are truly in love we like sharing all the tidbits of our life with our partner. We discuss the issues with them to let out the feeling of stress. But, when someone is imposing himself/herself for you to share every detail of your life is not healthy. At an initial stage, you love the concern and possessiveness of your love partner but after a while, this care will start suffocating you. A love relationship doesn’t mean that you got no right to your own personal and individual life.
3Your Partner Is Not Capable of Understanding You
You are spending too much of your time and energy on your partner if the most of your time is consumed by justification and explanation. Your partner’s behavior changes drastically and always you are the one who is being blamed for it. You don’t need to accept every accusation that your partner throws on you. Move out of this love relationship before it makes your life a living hell.
4You Face A Series of Never Ending Arguments
If arguments, fights, brawls, conflicts, and differences are the words that define your relationship, then what is the point of being in it. A relationship is a synonym for love, affection, care, protectiveness. A love relationship can never be defined with terms like never ending conflicts or a never ending series of arguments.
5One Person Is Being Dominant All The Time
All the relationships do have a dominant partner but being a dominant all the time suffocates the other partner. The dominating partner should understand that there is a limit to everything. A dominant need not to decide for both the partners all the time. There are times when you won’t feel like what your partner is feeling about a situation.
6Negativity is Rushing In
You feel negative when you are around your partner. The never ending series of arguments left without any conclusion. If your relationship is turning into criticisms, demotivation, insults, and any kind of abuse (physical or verbal) then this relationship is just not healthy but is also one of those toxic relationships.
7You Actually Don’t Understand Love
Possessiveness and jealousy are two terms that differentiate love from a need. If your partner is in that kind of love with you where your partner expects something out of you then it is not loved. To be precise, if your partner is with you because of the reasons of ‘what you have to offer to your partner’ then this matter of need, not love.
8Tough Situations Are Getting Tougher
Love plays like a hope in the dark. This feeling will hold you to be strong enough to face whatever comes. But if you are facing a tough situation in your life because of several reasons and your love life added to it then you are in a wrong relationship. Love helps you to let out your stress. If you people are in a true love relationship, then your partner is the one who can calm you down and be your strength in these tough situations. Your partner won’t let you affect with these things.
9You Started Demeaning Yourself
If you started feeling bad about yourself because your partner is letting you believe so then this relationship is really not working for you. You need to be comfortable in your skin while being in a relationship. It is the responsibility of your partner to make you believe that you are worthy enough to achieve whatever you desire for.
10Your Partner Is Trying To Change Yourself
Most of us desire for a perfect partner but trying to change someone according to you is wrong. You can’t force someone to be like what you want them to be. If your partner is imposing his thoughts on you and trying to make you do what your partner wants from you then this relationship won’t last long. A love relationship is about the mutual understanding and respect for other partner’s feeling.
11You Are Losing Someone
You are following your partner’s words and due to this very reason, you are losing your own individuality. You can’t lose your own identity in a race of becoming like someone else. If your partner doesn’t want the original version of you then there is someone who needs it, your family, the people who love you, and most importantly you need your own identity.
12No Emotional Touch
If your relationship is lacking emotional intimacy, then there is something wrong with this love relationship of ours. It starts with a bonding and flourishes with the trust building factor. If your relationship is lacking the basic need of emotional intimacy, then you are not being in a healthy relationship.
If you think that this relationship is not worth your time, then you should look for cautionary signs of an unhealthy relationship.
Tiru Dehariya
