Every woman dreams of a relationship which is pure and loyal. There is absolutely nothing that matches the feeling of finding your soul-mate who is trustworthy and kind, generous and fun to be with. And when you catch your boyfriend red handed that’s when all the happiness and joy begins to fade. No woman can take it that her man is cheating on him, and no woman ever wants to discover it this way. So we have compiled some situations and suggestions depicting the signs that he may be cheating on you.
Signs of a cheating boyfriend that you must never ignore:
There are several things a relationship goes through to become rock solid. The test of times bring many crisis to your love nest. While some of them are comparatively easy to forget and move past but other few are strictly the end of it all. A cheating boyfriend is not what you can live with, and thus look out for signs of a cheating boyfriend early on rather than ending up in a soup. Some such signs are:
1- He comes home late often:
Coming late can be a normal routine but occasionally is fine. When he makes it a habit and repeats again and again this can become a problem. This sure means he may have lost interest in spending time with you. And then comes the thought why, is he seeing someone else?
2- He is very very possessive about his phone and hides it when you are around:
Its OK to not share the passwords and all details from your phones and social media with each other. But hiding the phone and behaving too possessive about it may lead to some other things. Maybe he is cheating on your with others and someone whom you may know or catch him with
3- He begins being more attentive and careful than ever:
While not most of us will catch this as a sign for cheating but believe us when we write this. Its all about that guilt trap which comes in first few weeks post the cheating episodes. The guy unusually begins taking care of you and in no ways looks normal behavior
4- He often picks frequent fights with you:
Most strong relationships have more fights than lovey dovey moments but this does not necessarily mean your relationship is progressing on the right path. Recently he has begun picking fights on non-issues and it somehow feels unlikely of him. This is a sure sigh he may be cheating on you or no more interested in the relationship
5- He has been a cassanova all his life:
If a man has been dating a handful always, then why did you dream of a strong bond. Chances are he never left his habits and is still into dating many. Men who have had more relations at one time must be observed with more caution as they have mastered the art of cheating
6- He suddenly talks about breakups more often:
Things like what if we break up and how will we be post breakup become more talked about than ever. And he brings in the breakup more than required number of times every time he talks to you. This is a sign that he maybe cheating on you and he is prepared to breakup already
7- He has no interest in getting intimate and passionate:
All the fun you had while making out with him or his interest which drove you both to more exciting acts in bed is no more seen now. He has altogether lost interest in sex and has no seemingly apparent interest in you sexually. This is a sign that he has someone else to fulfill his desires now and is cheating on you
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8- He has ample lies than ever and covers up for everything now:
He is speaking more and more lie to you than ever. And his phone is mostly switched off, you are unable to see him at the dates on time. Also you get all excuses than ever from him, which points to the fact that he may be cheating on you
9- He doesnt bring you along when going out with his friends:
Now that you consider being in a strong relationship already you must accompany him at places he hangs out with his friends. But for the times he doesnt take you there can be reasons like he is meeting someone and cheating on you.
10- He ends up accusing and blaming you all the time:
Everytime you both argue or discuss he ends up blaming you for all the issues. And now its more than his habit to accuse you for all his situations. This can be a sure sign he is cheating on you and is desperate to get rid of the burden of this relationship
11- He suddenly has a late night call from someone you don’t know about regularly:
Hearing about the call and seeing him fade in secrecy can be a sure sign he is cheating on you. Until now you never saw him take any call in hiding and away from you and suddenly he began acting this way can be a sure sign he is cheating on you
12- He suddenly hates all the PDA:
All the public display of affection which he loved once, is now what he hates the most. He avoids being seen as a couple in public and doesnt like it dissing all the PDA as crazy and childish
13- Suddenly he sends a lot less kisses and hearts in texts:
This can be really annoying as all what he sent ever was hearts and kisses, but now in days he hasn’t even sent you a similey in texts. This is a sure sign he is cheating on you
14- He sees a text and replies way later or does not at all:
You know he has seen your text but he doesnt reply or if ever he does its way too late than expected from him. This may not be the case a few months back but now he is doing it all the time. This is a sure sign he is cheating on you
[Read: Some things in a relationship can be worse than cheating]
15- He suddenly shows more interest in one female:
He may start talking about that one female more often now. Not sharing his likes but maybe if shes your friend then asking details about her or if she is from work then maybe telling more and more stories about her. This is a sign he is falling for her already and maybe even cheating on you
16- He has many numbers on his phone which are saved in strange ways:
Anything which does not share the name of the person calling can be tricky for you. And when you see calls and texts often from them which he is hiding and keeping secret then it sure is a sign he is cheating on you.
17- He is becoming more and more selfish now:
Suddenly he is becoming more and more selfish now. Which was never the case before and all he thinks is about himself now. This is a sure sign he is cheating on you
18- he follows a lot of sexy women on Facebook and twitter:
Suddenly you see his wall and profile filled up with sexy and unknown faces of women. He may be even texting and talking to them more often. This is a sign he is cheating on you and maybe with more than one person
19- He is concerned more about privacy even when he is with you:
He now safeguards his privacy a lot more than ever. He is concerned more and more about keeping his life secret and not sharing much of him with you.
[Read: How to fix a relationship after cheating]
20- He suddenly becomes very moody and lacks self-esteem:
He is suddenly very moody and can blast off even at a snip. All he sees now is a low self-esteem and he is constantly into more and more comparisons. He may not talk to you that often but fights every time you both discuss anything. This can be a sign he is not interested in you anymore and is already cheating you
The above compilation on Signs of a cheating boyfriend to look out for is to help you prepare yourself for the heartbreak in your relationship by not waiting until you catch him red handed which can be devastating and torture-some. While most often you can communicate and find the actual reason but its better to be observant and keep checking for the above unusual signs in him. Its better to be proactive as it causes less pain and suffering.
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