Although marriage is every girl’s once in a lifetime a ‘Big Day’, there are certain things that seem cool only when done before taking the wows and swimming into another world that would be entirely different, would you be able to deny this? I bet you won’t!
It is not that you would be caged after marriage, but you would love to tell your future daughter(if you have on) about what you goofed up with when you were just about to be married. You are in the drivers seat to make most of it, let it be cherished. Having said, it is nice to beat the clock on certain things which is just revolving around you and your personal life.
If you haven’t ever made a list of the things you should do before marriage. Never mind, Look through this article to get all the amusing ideas on all that you could possibly do before getting spliced. Your time starts now! Do not be ditsy, be a bubbly bachelor girl to say happy adieus to your bachelorhood and laugh back at those moments when you are sitting in your balcony once you are officially a Mrs to your Mr
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Start Ticking Off This Checklist – Make A List And Begin!
The wedding bells ringing is no doubt going to be a joyful ride for you, but have you ever thought of making a joy ride of your own before you travel in the joy ride of a commitment? It is altogether going to be a different experience to cherish and here are some ideas of what you should be including in that list. Be ready to cross out the list. Here is the list you should be making.
Idea No 1 – Solo Date! Solo Trip! – Discover The ‘Bachelor Girl’
As you get to know that you are going to be hitched on so and so date. Be on your toes and just think of going on a happening trip all by yourself.
You feel the most independent and it is more or less an empowering feeling if you haven’t ever travelled alone and not to forget to mention you are now a big time eligible bachelor girl so that you can come back to be a different person after discovering that inner peace. How sane does it sound? Do it even if it is insane and do not forget to go on a date alone when you go on that trip.
Idea No 2 – Turn Your Simplicity To Swag – Be The Next Madonna!
It is not that a woman should always look glamorous or beautiful just because she has to impress a man or look stunning in the entire crowd.
At times you need to go for an entire makeover so that you can tussle with your own hair, look at the ‘sexy’ you in the mirror and rejoice the feeling of looking beautiful. You do not have to be plain vanilla. Before you get married, just get a new makeover to celebrate your bachelorhood that is coming to an end.
Idea No 3 – Go On A Blind Date
The idea of going on a blind date is extremely adventurous, it is just as fun as eating a new cuisine for the first time. Once you are married you would never do something mad like this. You would still meet new people but you would not go on a date with someone unknown. This is that golden time, strike it now!
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Idea no 4 – Let The Fempire Strike Back On A Trip
A ladies night out, day out or an only girls clan party is fun beyond imagination. Get set with all your girls, go on a trip with them and do all the girly stuff like twinning, gossiping, pulling each others leg, dressing up together, getting drunk with each other, laughing your guts out, talking about all the naughty things you would want to do and maybe reveal your nasty and wild secrets too.
You need to be around your favorite girls to get and give the best advises and raise a toast to your last singlehood. Let the woman empire get close and strike together to have all the gala time in the world.
Idea No 5 – Meet Your First Love
This can sort of take an emotional toll on you or for all you know it will make you feel like a stronger person than ever before. You must do this before marriage, meet the man you loved once upon a time before you get on with life. It is just a nice feeling to meet that person and talk of the best times you guys had as a couple.
Before you start fresh it is good to exchange thoughts and if any of you haven’t forgiven each other you could do that as well.
Idea no 6 – Go For A Family Trip
Family trips before a wedding are all dramatic where it would be one of your last ones before you get to be the lady of another man. Technically you do not get away from your parents but your presence would fade away once you are gone.
Make sure you all take time out of your schedules and go for a great family trip, spend time with each other talking about all the best to the worst times together. Drag in your cousins and everyone you are close to in the family as well.
Idea No 7 – Make Sure Your Pockets Have No Holes
It is important that you plan on how you want to spend for your wedding, how much is it that you have at the moment and what do you need to do if you are going short of money. There is never a problem if your fiance could help you with it but let it be all your headache of how you manage it. Therefore look around at everything and accordingly spend.
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Idea No 8 – Make The Unusual Happen
The fun of doing something unusual you have never done before getting married remains a memory and you should make the most of it. You might be hesitant at the moment to do it, but just remember that this time is like Cinderellas 12’Oclock and that unusual could be anything like maybe paragliding, date someone for a while, dance in an unknown wedding, face one fear, experience something different. You would know what is that one thing that is out of the world for you and you want to experience it. Do it in your bachelor life, feels good!
Idea No 9 – Master To Cook Exotic Dishes
Learning to cook exotic dishes before your wedding is just adding to one of the creative tasks you could think of. You do not have to learn is just because your future husbands taste buds are happy. It is just that it is going to give you a thrill of have mastered cooking exotic dishes. Do it before you get married, it is going to be super fun.
Idea No 10 – Spend Time With One Of Your Latest Crush
Confess to the guy you have a crush on before marriage and spend quality time with him that could be dancing, singing together, drinking together or even walking on the street together. Only if he agreed to this, it is insane to do this because you want to create memories that you can laugh at later.
It can be a healthy flirting and there is no harm because when would you not have guilt and do it if not now? Think about it! You are going to feel like a stupid girl and laugh to it.
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Idea No 11 – Travel With Your To Be ‘Man’
This would be so much fun to travel with the man you are going to marry. The fun here would be a lot of excitement at the same time it is risky to discover something unusual about him that might change your mind. It is good to discover a little of him before you sail on his ship for the rest of your life.
The reasons are quite obvious, you get to know him better, you get to experience the excitement levels the two of you share before the wedding, the tickling in your stomach and the way you live through those elated emotions. To experience this side of the person just begins to add on to your togetherness and you could gauge him on a lot of aspects if you intend to.
Idea No 12 – Make A Pinky Promise To Yourself
Some promises are not meant to be broken and you make some promises to yourself before you get married that you are going to be the same happy and a more energetic soul no matter what happens. Do not let any situation in a commitment change you, you can go ahead adjusting with them at a time and a fair share of compromise works. But promise yourself to be happy throughout and never stop loving yourself, do not let go of the person you are now. Be happy about staying the same.
Idea No 13 – Gaze At The Stars And Drown Into An Imaginary World
You should do the little memorable things before you get married and to add to one of them, go to a beach after the sunsets and the stars make their entry. Lie down on the bare sand with your arms wide open welcoming the breeze to give you a hug. Gently close your eyes and stay in this feeling of solitude by thinking of all your good memories as a bachelor. You can imagine what you want to be and how you want to take your life ahead. You get an ideal me time.
Idea No 14 – Understand About How An Orgasm Feels
Feeling an orgasm is ecstatic, it is not a subject of momentary pleasure. Technically it is for the moment but you need to understand the depth of how nice an orgasm would make you feel. It is necessary that you understand an orgasm much before your man makes you feel one. This is because you get to discover what is it that gives you immense pleasure and what are your likes and dislikes when it comes to getting physical with your man. To feel an orgasm is one of the factors to drive your sexual life after marriage and you better understand what is it that you want.
Idea No 15 – Have A Spinsters Party
Spinsters party is one of the happening things to do before your wedding and it is like a must to feel those wedding vibes where all your friends would pull your leg and they will give you crazy tasks to do as well as say crazy and naughty things to you.
Plan a spinsters night with your group of girls, have a theme in terms of dress code and feast on food and drinks. Blow the music and dance till you drop.
Now that you have an idea on all the things you should do before getting married, start doing all of them one by one, if you got that zeal to do a little more then just add more to your list. Do not forget it is, after all, going to be your last time as a bachelor just do not think of the odds and evens, right or wrong, just go on and cross off everything that you have ever wanted to do.
Make this last phase a joyful one!
