It is undeniably true that you are in a spot when a guy is fighting his feelings for you. It is harder when he is investing emotions, time and energy for you and you do nothing about it.
Sometimes you not acknowledging his feelings must put you in that guilty zone and at times you tend to melt after seeing him fight those feelings. Finally, it is only you know the best way to go about what you see, whether it’s about ignoring him or stepping forward with him.
For the women who are unsure about he fighting his feelings for you or not, here is an article revealing sure signs that he is fighting his feelings for you. So, ladies, its time you analyze and see what’s happening with you.
Signs He Is Fighting His Feelings For You
Every man and woman have their way of expressing emotions. Not everyone believes in being vocal and the ones who hide it within are either scared or unsure.
Talking about men falling in love, most of them will not agree or tell women about their feelings. They unknowingly make it clear through their actions that they are fighting through their feelings.
If you are not expressive, you will be okay with that. Conversely, if you love being vocal and transparent, this can be annoying. But, hold on!
They don’t say it but fight it because they are either scared of being rejected, in doubts if you already have someone and they don’t want to feel miserable or they have bad past experiences.
Since they won’t say it! You better read through these signs and understand it!
Sign No 1 – The Stare Game Begins
The best example is that of you staring at your crush. Think of it this way, if you have a crush for someone, would you even be sensible or conscious enough to control your eyes to stop staring at him? Well, if you have gone gaga over him then you will but naturally make it all awkward for him.
Same is the case with this man who is fighting his feelings for you, if he is really into you, trust me, you will be able to notice that spark in his eyes when he looks at you. For a moment you will ignore the spark and tell yourself to be reasonable. However, every time he looks at you, he will gaze and drown in your eyes.
Staring is one part of it, you will see him blush and don’t pretend like you won’t know it. If you never noticed it so far, no worries. Start to notice if he is staring at you, if he keeps doing it, then he is mad for you.
Sign No 2 – It Is Never Petty When It Is About You
Don’t be oblivious that everything you do, say, or feel won’t mean much to him. Of course even little things will matter, he won’t say it directly but he will prove you totally right through his actions.
The words you speak will be like that of treasuring jewels in the locker. He will literally be like a machine who wants to feed and register whatever you say. Anything you do will never be small for him, he will notice it in a special way.
For example, if you wear a different hairstyle or for that matter say that you want to do some charity next birthday, he will keep it in mind and assist you with it. So now you know how every little thing is important for him.
Read: Signs that Prove You Like Him
Sign No 3 – The Protector Is in Form
Men who love their dear ones are quite protective. Especially, when it is about that special woman in their life. You will be his doll or princess, whatever works best for you.
He doesn’t have to tell you that he is protective, you need to be smart and understand it. He will stand up and speak for you when someone talks against you, he will keep checking on your health and by chance, if you are unwell, you will see him cook for you and give you medications.
Apart from this, he will not like other guys getting too close to you. By chance if a guy he doesn’t know tries to come close to you, he will not say anything, but, he stays around you.
When he is going out of his way and being your protector, for sure he is fighting his feelings for you.
Sign No 4 – He Gets Mysterious
When a man expresses his love, everything is crystal clear. Conversely, when a man doesn’t say what he feels, his thoughts or what he feels about you remains a mystery.
For instance, there might be many people secretly admiring you, would you ever know them all? No, right? It is always a mystery.
While he is fighting his feelings for you, his behavior, emotions, his happiness related to you or pain. Nothing you will ever know from him. If he is good with hiding his feelings, he will smile it off. On the other hand, if he can’t hide his feelings, you will see a change in his expression.
To sum it all up, he will either tell you about his feelings or continue to hide it and keep it as a mystery forever.
Sign No 5 – He Looks For A Chance To Please And Impress You
There are no doubts that he really finds you special if he always looks for a chance to please and impress you. He complimenting you on the most unnoticed things or going out of his way to do something nice for you says it all.
For instance, he will portray his best behaviour in front of you and won’t argue to most of the things you say. By any means, he will try his best to understand your point of view more than putting forward his own. His main motto will be that of seeing you happy and if you notice more, be it any problem, he will stand by your side.
[Read Signs He Likes You More Than a Friend]
Sign No 6 – The Behaviour Swing
It is scary when a person is too much in love with you, more the love, higher are the chances of heartbreak. If his behaviour with you is not stable. You need to know that he is fighting his feelings for you.
At times you will see him sad and rest of the time he might just try hard to ignore you. If you notice that constant switch in his behaviour, you can always discuss it with him.
Some men are strange, they will never talk about their problems, they unknowingly show it through their actions.
Sign No 7 – He Finds Out Details
No one likes getting into details until and unless the opposite person is not important. He is in love if he is finding out every detail about your personal life, work, family and the things you are fond of and dislike. Otherwise, do you think any person would be interested in knowing so much?
There will be times when he won’t be able to shoot his question directly, however, indirectly he will take a step forward and try to find out about you.
Sign No 8 – He Will Tells You Everything About Himself
Commonly, many guys don’t share their feelings and if he starts to share everything about is life, you cannot ignore this sign.
For once you might even think that he is telling you everything just because the two of you are friends. If it were only friendship, why would he tell you everything in detail?
Mostly, we speak our hearts out the most with that one special person in our life.
Sign No 9 – All Admiration For You
No matter how hard he tries keeping away from you, you will end up being his strength and weakness at the same time. When he sees you dressed well or with a cute expression, he won’t be able to take his eyes off you.
The will make it so evident that he has feelings and maybe wants to fight over it so that he doesn’t end up hurting himself. He will shower compliments at you.
Sign No 10 – He Explains Himself To You
When a man loves you, even if he hasn’t told you yet, he won’t take it casually when you doubt that he is dating another woman. At any cost, he will justify and explain to you about his friendship with the other women.
The reason behind doing this is to indirectly let you know that it is only you who is on his mind and no and no one else. Rest of the women are just his good friends.
Read: How to Say I Love You Without Saying it
Sign No 11 – Detachment Battles With Attachment
It doesn’t take long to be attached when you’ve fallen in love. Especially when the attachment grows and you are not able to do anything about it.
It is a similar scene with him as well. He will fight to get detached from you. He will have constant conflicts with his thoughts telling him to keep away from you.
Although you won’t understand this sign, he will struggle through this emotion and sometimes you might catch it when his behaviour towards you changes.
Sign No 12 – You Are The Best For Him
Love is pure emotion. When a man has genuine feelings for you, he sees the best in you and even if you don’t possess the quality that he always wanted in a girl, he will accept you for who you are.
Never will he even think I wish she was like this or that. Having said, even if there are ten flaws in you and better qualities in his other women friends, never will he make a mistake of comparing you to the other women.
If he can be thoughtful to not compare you with another woman and respect your personality, you can see how much you mean to him but somehow he may or may not tell you that because he is fighting his feelings for you.
How To Deal With A Man Fighting His Feelings For You
Let’s try and align his feelings and yours. Lately, if he’s been behaving like what’s mentioned above, it is clear that he loves you and either because of no response from your end or his personal fears, fighting his feelings is all he sees.
The next question is whether you are into him or not. Either ways, let’s look at ways on dealing with this man who’s been fighting his feelings for you.
If You Like Him
- Don’t be mad at him, it won’t get any better. Handle the situation with patience.
- Get to know about things that hurt him and share about instances you are sensitive about. Learn about each other’s fears and nothing like it if you can talk about the past. This only makes the two of you understand each other better.
- Allow him to take his space and let him express his feelings when he is comfortable.
- If he is struggling to express himself, you take the initiative and tell him about your feelings.
- If he is taking time to open up, he maybe wants to know you better and then speak up about his feelings.
If You Don’t Like Him
Saying No to someone who is in love with you is tough. However, the real truth is better than being fake. Therefore, if you see these signs in him, let him know that you see nothing beyond a good friendship between the two of you.
For sure it will hurt him, so be prepared. If he wants to avoid you or for that matter go away, allow him to do what he thinks is the best for him to get over this emotional turmoil.
Conclusion
When a guy fights his feelings for you, nothing goes unnoticed. If you want to give it some time, wait for a while for him to open up or if it is bothering you, walk upto the person and speak your heart out. Further what happens just remains in between the two of you.
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