If you don’t want to go by the usual dating app and plan on finding your partner via a dating community at a happening place, you should try speed dating. You never know it might click for you and even if it doesn’t, you will get to add another member to your friends’ list if the two of you are willing. Speed dating is interesting and not a bad idea if you are in doubt about its concept.
You get to see lively people and a vibrant environment. After you meet someone interesting, based on your conversations, how he questions and the way you answer him will give you clarity of whether the two of you can get along or not.
If you are going to meet your speed date and wondering what questions to ask him then read through this article and get a list of funny, sensible, and good speed dating questions when you meet him for the first time. Regardless of what you decide about the date, have fun while going through this list.
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What Is Speed Dating?
It is a meetup community where a single person is allowed to mingle with many other singles out there. It is an organized event. Here you can talk to many people. Say suppose, you want to spend half an hour with three people, you can go ahead an do so. If not, you can even switch over people after every ten minutes. These events are usually held at Cafes, clubs or at another venue. What’s interesting is you can grab some food and drinks while having a conversation.
The main idea of speed dating is to help you find a suitable guy or girl for marriage. Just as you have to pay a subscription for being on matrimonial sites, same is with this too. You need to pay a subscription. Rabbi Yaacov Deyo is the one who first started this concept for Jewish singles and now this is common among 100’s of singles in North America and Europe.
If you look at an even brighter side, this community is the best for introverts who are ready to interact with different people. In this kind of community, you will get to understand how different people think and the learning exposure you get here is amazing.
Before registration, you will be asked to select your criteria on certain expectations and accordingly find people. For example, you can choose an age criterion and mingle with that group.
Speed dating is a great way of learning a little about the person prior and you can easily take off from where you left. And before anything, Have a well dressed and well-prepared date.
Speed Dating Questions to Start A Conversation
Sometimes it is not easy to break the ice and start a conversation. In instances like speed dating, get an idea of the kind of questions you want to ask the man you are going to meet. Take it slow. Avoid starting a conversation with serious questions, make it easy and casual for the person to be able to open up with you.
Take a look at some of the best speed dating questions to start a conversation!
#1 –Which is that one achievement that makes you proud of yourself?
#2 – What are the things you crave to eat if you are awake late at night?
#3 –Which is your favorite season and why? Which season do you dislike and why?
#4 –If you were asked to impress me and cook for me, what would you cook? and why would you choose that particular dish?
#5 – Do you like animals. If yes, which is your favorite animal?
#6 – What wins? Attraction and chemistry in marriage or friendship?
#7 – If you get a chance to live close to nature, would you prefer living by the beach or mountains?
#8 –Who all inspire you and why?
#9 – If you were to make a crazy Wishlist, tell me about the two most crazy wishes you would include.
#10 –What are the little things that give you joy?
#11 – What is it that you treasure the most – money, relationships, dreams, pet, values etc. and why?
#12 – What are the things you do during the weekend?
#13 – If you read, then what kind of books do you like and why?
#14 – What is your friends circle like? Do you have a big group or you prefer having a few friends to hang out with?
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#15 – Who is your favorite leader from the History and if you get a chance to meet that person, how would you make it special for him/her?
#16 – What are the things you like and dislike about your best friend?
#17 –What adventure sport do you fear trying?
#18 – What are the steps you take to control your anger?
#19 – Do you believe more in science or spirituality?
#20 – What is your opinion about politics and who according to you is a good administrator?
#21 – What is the weirdest thing you have eaten?
#22 – How much importance do you give to fitness in your life?
#23 – If you had to take me along to do one of your favorite things around the city, what would that be and why do you think so?
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#24 – Are you a morning person or you like being the night owl?
#25 – Tell me about two or three mischievous things you’ve done in childhood?
#26 – Are you more close to yourself or your family?
#27 – Quickly tell me three things that make you happy. Don’t think about them, say whatever comes to your mind.
#28 – What did you dream to become as a child? Are you still working on that goal or have you made another one?
#29 –If you were to be volunteering at an NGO, which department would you involve yourself in and why?
#30 – What is that one thing that instantly boosts your mood?
#31 – On what aspects do you have the best knowledge?
#31 – Are you a party person or the one who loves having a drink at home?
#32 –What are the things you dislike about yourself and wish to change them?
#33 – What are the things you are guilty about? Have you forgiven yourself for those mistakes and asked for forgiveness?
#34 – What is it that picks you up and keeps you going during hard times?
#35 – If you had to make a choice of the two, what would you choose? Getting a chance of traveling to space or would you prefer going for a vacation to 10 new countries?
#36 –Who is your favorite celebrity and why?
#37 – Are you goal-oriented or do you prefer going with the flow?
#38 – Are you an Atheist or do you believe in God? If you believe in God, tell me how did your journey of belief start? And if you are an atheist, then tell me what do you believe in.
#39 – Tell me about those times when you lost confidence and how you picked yourself from there?
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#40 – Tell me about one worst incident that shakes you up even today.
#41 – What are the things that make you anxious?
#42 – What did you have to give up to get what you have? For example, what habit or comfort did you have to sacrifice for your career or personal life?
#43 –Have you ever gone through financial crisis? If yes, how did you deal with situations then?
#44 –What kind of people do you like to have an interaction with?
#45 – Why did you choose to talk to me among the crowd?
#46 –What are the important things needed for a happy marriage?
#47 – Do you prefer being in noisy places that has big building and all lit up? or would you like being in a peaceful place that is filled with scenic beauty?
#48 –What are the skills or things you plan on learning this year?
#49 – How do you celebrate a New Year Eve?
#50 –Tell me about one of your struggle stories. It could be anything. Dealing with a trauma, depression, anxiety, found it hard to find a job or dealt with an animal trying to attack you. Pick anything that you struggled with and came out of that incident.
#51 – What do you like about speed dating and how many women have you liked so far.
#52 – What in a woman would attract you? You can elaborate it if you wish to.
#53 – Have you ever addressed a crowd. Have you ever given a speech, danced or played an instrument in front of a crowd?
#54 –What have you learnt from your past relationships?
#55 –How do you deal with a person you dislike?
#56 – How do you react when someone is yelling at you?
#57 – Would you prefer being married to a woman who is earning well and contributing at home or a woman who is earning an average and is your best friend?
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#58 – What are the mistakes you can never forgive?
#59 –How do you deal with your mood swings?
#60 – Do you believe in being a master of one of jack of all cards and why?
#61 – What are your basic expectations from a partner?
#62 – What are your intimate fantasies?
#63 – Would you prefer being with a woman who is a great chef or is sexy in bed, what is more, important to you?
#64 –When are you a spendthrift and when do you save up?
#65 – What are the last things you would do if someone says you have only 24 hours left.
Conclusion
Speed dating is more of an adventure and time to explore, learn and enjoy the experience. It is not guaranteed that you will find your ideal life partner and at the same time there are chances you might instantly click and get to know that he is the one. It is okay even if you don’t find someone for yourself, at the end of it, you will get new friends and if you find someone, take it slow and possibly live with each other to understand if the two of you are compatible enough or not.
When you go in for a concept like speed dating, you’d always need something to take it off and to be your virtual love cupid, here are 65 interesting speed dating questions to ask the dashing and amazing men you meet. Make it as interesting as you can!
